IsiXeko Sokubamba Ucweyo lokukhuthaza uTata noNyana kunye nokuLwa uBundlobongela obuSekwe kwisini
18 kweyoMnga 2024 – 15 eyoMqungu 2025
Intatheli kaDizindaba
Ngokuhambelana neeNtsuku ezili-16 zaMazwe ngaMazwe zokuLwa ubuNdlobongela obuSekwe kwiSini, iSixeko saseKapa siququzelele ucweyo lweentsuku ezimbini olunenguqu olunesihloko esithi Fatherhood for the Future. Uququzelelwe liSebe loLuntu, uBugcisa neNkcubeko (CACD), umsitho ubujolise ekomelezeni ubudlelwane bobawo nonyana lo gama kushukuxwa izithethe zoluntu ezikhuthaza ubundlobongela obusekelwe kwisini (gender-based violence) (GBV).
Le workshop ibibanjelwe kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo eziquka iLanga, iKraaifontein, iDelft, iMfuleni kunye nombindi weKapa, idibanise amadoda namakhwenkwe kwindawo ekwabelwana ngayo yokufunda nokukhula. Ngokusetyenziswa okutsha kobugcisa kunye nobuchule bonyango, abathathi-nxaxheba baphonononga ubunzima bobudoda, unxibelelwano, kunye nokuphendula.
“Olu cweyo ludale indawo ekhuselekileyo apho abathathi-nxaxheba babenokwabelana ngamava abo, bacele umngeni kwizithethe eziyingozi zesini, kwaye bacamngce ngendima ebalulekileyo eyenziwa ngootata ekuboniseni indlela yokuziphatha kakuhle,” utshilo uCeba uPatricia van der Ross, iLungu leKomiti kaSodolophu weSixeko kwiiNkonzo zoLuntu nezeMpilo. .
Enye yeembalasane yaba kukuyilwa kwezinto zobugcisa ezibonisa ukuzibophelela kwabathathi-nxaxheba ekuthinteleni i-GBV. Abaququzeleli bagxininise isidingo sokusuka kwimimiselo yenkcubeko efanisa ubudoda kunye nobudlova, ukukhuthaza ukutshintshela kwisisombululo esinovelwano kunye nokwakha ingxabano.
“Izinto ezilindelekileyo ekuhlaleni zidla ngokunyanzela amadoda ukuba abonakalise amandla ngogonyamelo, nto leyo eyenza ubundlobongela bubonakale njengento eyamkelekileyo impendulo kungquzulwano. Ukuba sizimisele ngokwakha uluntu olukhuselekileyo, kufuneka sicele umngeni kwezi ngcinga zonakalisayo kwaye senze enye indlela,” wongeze watsho uVan der Ross.
Ngaphaya kwengxoxo, amadoda namakhwenkwe aphuhlise izicwangciso zomntu kunye noluntu ezisebenzayo ukujongana ne-GBV kwiindawo zabo. La manyathelo, enzelwe ukwandisa impembelelo yocweyo, abonise ukuzibophelela ekukhuthazeni uluntu olukhuselekileyo kunye nemiceli mngeni yeengqikelelo unyaka wonke.
Inkqubo yaqukunjelwa ngomsitho wokuvala, ohambelana nokuphela kwePhulo leeNtsuku ezili-16 zokuTshantliziyo. ISebe le-CACD likuqinisekisile ukuzinikela kwalo ekukhuthazeni ulwazi nenyathelo elichasene ne-GBV ngamaphulo aqhubekayo.
“UMzantsi Afrika usaqhuba ukulwa namazinga aphezulu ngokothusayo okubulawa kwabasetyhini kunye ne-GBV, kunye nabasetyhini kunye namantombazana ahlala ingamaxhoba aphambili. Ngeendibano zocweyo ezifana nezi, sijonge ukucela umngeni kwiingcamango ezigwenxa eziyingozi kwaye sikhuthaze inguqu enentsingiselo,” uvale ngelo uVan der Ross.
Inyathelo lobuTata bekamva limi njengobungqina bokuzinikela kweSixeko ekukhuliseni ubudlelwane obunempilo, ukunciphisa ubundlobongela, nokwakha uluntu olukhuselekileyo kumntu wonke.
